Attracting Women Who Work At The Mall

Women who work in the mall or the most part are paid to be nice to the customers.

Men who approach women who work at the mall for the most part are doing absolutely nothing to increase their chances of success with women.

Does this mean men should not approach women who work at the mall?

Absolutely not, all that it means is unless you are getting phone numbers and dates with these women you have no idea what you are doing to attract or in this case not attract women.

A man with absolutely no confidence in approaching women and a man confident with women will both get the same worst case scenario; friendly conversation and a polite no.

At first, this sounds great a "safe woman" to approach with little risk.

The problem is you already know this beforehand so all you have really done is increased your chances of attracting women who work at the mall, waitresses, and any other women who has to talk to you because it is her job.

Also, just in case you didn't know, women who work in those kinds of jobs get hit on all the time while at work, so actually attracting these types of women is much harder than other women while they are working.

If you are going to approach safe women that is perfectly okay as long as you are approaching other women as well.

The problem begins when you start relying exclusively on safe women since even if you are having success with them you can have even more success with other women as well.

How to Get Men

The way to get men is to not NEED them.

By this I mean, being open to the possibility of finding someone while remaining emotionally detached from needing someone to feel complete.

This sort of attitude drives men insane making them beg to want to be around you.

Think of the average single woman...about 50% want to get married so they fish like a shark.

But when you live above average, you swim in the ocean with your beautiful sassy, sexy self, go about your merry way and wait for a man to catch up with you.

Men will run after you in packs with this air of confidence. They don't like it when the desperate man hunter close in on them.

Who would?

If you haven't already, try going online and write a killer profile that will get men to drop their jaws. But I need to warn you that any photos with your boobs popping out will make them think of you as a low class Ho.

Even if you are smart, don't do dumb by putting up a pic of your flesh.

Women who do this communicate to men that they are not smart enough to use their minds and dumb enough to use their bodies to get attention. Men will look and the ones who fly low will contact you for a favor.

If you want to know how to have men running after you as I have, become the sort of woman who couldn't care less...well maybe a little.

Fast Fat Loss and Sexy Female

Fast fat loss and sexy female abs are just days away for you. Warning: I need 60 total minutes of your time at home each week. Yes, I know you're busy. But if you can just give me those minutes, I can guarantee that you'll lose weight and see a difference within 1 week. I promise.

Fast Fat Loss and Sexy Female Abs Routine

1. Hindu Squats

This is a no weights version of squats that you can do at home. This is an incredible fat burner. This creates a huge oxygen deficit. That forces your body to scavenge and plunder for whatever quick energy it can get. Well, it gets that energy from your bodyfat.

Here's what you do. Squat up and down as fast as you can and swipe or touch your finger tips to the ground with each repetition to prove you went down far enough.

Do 100 repetitions as fast as you can, but try for under 5 minutes. Do this 3 days a week. Total time, 15 minutes a week.

2. Walking on an incline treadmill or hill

First off, walking on a flat surface is fine for long term, slow weight loss. But if you want fast fat loss, walking on a 10-15 degree incline is what you need to do. Walking on a flat surface and walking on an incline are like night and day. Totally different. Just try it once and you'll see what I mean. You can literally feel the fat being burned off when you walk on an incline.

So walk on an inclined surface for 15-20 minutes a day, 3 days a week. Total time, 45-60 minutes a week.

This is a simple, yet powerful way to get fast fat loss and sexy female abs... with results happening within 1 week.

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How to Prevent a Personal Assault

Pepper Spray is the number one way to prevent a personal assault. Why? Because it is small and compact, easy to use, and is very effective.

Pepper Spray comes in a variety of sizes and shapes, from 1/2 oz on a key chain to a one pound blaster. It also comes disguised as a pen and, for the ladies, is available in a lipstick tube.

There are many ways that Pepper Spray can be dispersed -- stream, spray, fogger and even a gel. Pepper Spray is easily carried in your pocket or purse. Just be sure to have it available, especially if you find yourself in a dangerous place.

Every day on the news we hear of another assault and even rape. It doesn't have to be the creepy guy hiding in the shadows like in the movies -- it could be your neighbor, your date or even your teacher!

Here are some tips about how you can prevent a personal assault. They are relevant whether you are carrying Pepper Spray or not. If you are carrying Pepper Spray, then your chances of getting face-to-face with an attacker will diminish even more.

- Keep your Pepper Spray handy when you are walking or jogging, especially in poorly lit areas

- If you are in your car, make sure the Pepper Spray is at the top of your purse for easy access

- Always be aware of your surroundings and stay in well-lit areas if possible

- Walk on the side of the street facing traffic

- Walk close to the curb and avoid alleys and bushes where attackers can hide

- Bad guys look for people who appear vulnerable for a sexual assault so be sure to walk with confidence and at a steady pace. Keep your Pepper Spray handy and ready to use

- If you even think that you're in danger or being followed while walking, put your Pepper Spray in your hand and walk quickly into and area that has lots of lights and people

- Never let anyone come up to your car to ask directions. Always speak to them from a distance. Keep one hand on the wheel for a fast get-away and the other on your Pepper Spray -- and be ready to use it if needed

- Be sure to look around your car and in your back seat before getting into your car, especially at night. The back seat is a perfect place for some creep to wait for you and cause trouble. Too many people just open the front door, drop their purse or packages on the other front seat and go without any attention to the rest of the car. Always have yor Pepper Spray available, whether in a canister or on your key chain

These few tips may seem just like common sense but they are often things we forget to do. Carrying Pepper Spray is NOT paranoia, is being prepared just in case... Let's face it we live in a dangerous world and it's getting worse every day.

Always be alert so you don't become a crime statistic.

Just an aside -- some people are afraid to use their Pepper Spray because of the damage it will do to the attacker. Not to worry because while Pepper Spray has immediate effects on the bad guy, the effects are only temporary (approximately 30 minutes) and have no permanent effects. But that allows you enough time to get away and call 911 so the police arrive while the attacker is still down.

So, if you have a need to use Pepper Spray then USE IT and get away fast! Don't stand around admiring your work because you never know if the attacker will make a lunge or a swing at you.

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Tatoo in your body

The lotus flower is a popular flower choice amongst tattoo enthusiasts. The reasons vary greatly for this, from the ability to size it, change the colouration, the ease of places you can put it on your body and the fact it works for both sexes. It has held many meanings for its bearers and has deep roots in many cultures as to the meaning as well. Perhaps you are set on a flower design, how do you know it is the right flower for you?

The lotus flower is a beautiful choice for a tattoo. You can easily add to it vines, water, coy fish or any number of other elements and still have it look wonderful. It is a flower of bold brilliant colour and even if you change the actual colour the colouration is still wonderfully predominant.

Of course, everyones meaning and reasoning for getting a lotus flower will vary from person to person by there are some historical meanings to take into consideration when choosing this flower, as it is more global known by its historical meaning then by your personal meaning. Many religions view this flower as displaying the journey of one to enlightenment. Due to the way the actual flower grows and emerges into the world, from the muck of still water, to emerge and reach itself to the sun, one can easily see the symbolic connections. It also more modernly, symbolizes beauty, strength and journeys.

No matter the final lotus flower tattoo you choose, it will be one of beauty and strength. The tattoo is a common choice of flower fanatics and those who want to tell their story of a past journey upon their bodies. Irregardless of the story behind your tattoo, the lotus flower can be the perfect flower tattoo.

Men And Women In A Relationship

n a relationship, men and women think and behave very differently. As men and women are different, sometimes even gifts can mean different meaning to different sexes.

By giving a flower to a girl, a girl will generally feel very happy, and can't wait to walk to the bus stop with this flower. However, if a guy receives a flower, he may feel lost and do not know what to do with it. He will try to hide the flower as he is afraid that his friends may laugh at him.

By arranging a surprise dinner at a restaurant, a guy will feel that he needs to swap his credit card and pay again. To a gal, she is more concerned about the ambience of the restaurant, and whether she should try the salad.

If the gift is a gym membership, the guy will feel motivated as it is time to train up and develop muscles. A gal, on the other hand, may think that the guy is trying to hint that she is putting on weight. She may become angry.

If the gift is an overseas trip, the guy will probably be planning time to train up in a gym, to develop muscles and appear hunky. Gals, on the other hand, will be planning for a room that have two beds and the things needed to bring to the trip.

If a guy is being invited to meet her parents, he will feel like the gal is trying to see if her parents will disapprove of their relationship. A gal may feel that the guy is going to propose to her soon.

As men and women may response differently to a gift, it is important to have good communication, to avoid unnecessary conflicts. This is just one of the difference that men and women behave differently in a relationship.

Dating with Dream Man

• Ever wondered how some women attract the interest of almost every man they meet?

• Can a woman break her cycle of repeatedly committing to the Wrong Man?

• How does a woman meet, date and gain love and devotion of their Dream Man?

The biggest problem that single women have in finding, dating and attracting their Dream Man is that they repeatedly sabotage their dating and relationship opportunities with their negative attitudes, bad dating behavior, or they choose men who are incapable of contributing to a meaningful relationship. A woman may not realize that she is saying or doing the things that run quality men off, or that she habitually attracts the wrong man; nevertheless, it is her low self-esteem issues, a weak sense of intuition and her inability to understand men that is, most times, at the core of her dating and relationship problems.

The 7 Steps

1) Develop an open-minded mindset about the men you meet and date. Enjoy dating a wider range of men because the next man you meet could turn out to be a new supportive male friend, a romantic hookup for a girlfriend, or just when you least expect it, your Dream Man magically appears.

2) Find your authentic self. Face your fears, forgive your shortcomings, forget your failures and move beyond the negative influences of your past. Once you have done that you can uncover and capitalize on your God-given talents and the abilities and strengths that you have earned by living life. It is then you will unleash the confidence, passion and ability to attract and achieve the things you want most in life.

3) Identify and clean up your negative attitudes and bad dating behavior that have in the past run men off. If you don't know what they are, ask a close girlfriend, but be prepared for what you hear.

4) Maintain a social life that doesn't include a man; enjoy quality time with your girlfriends. More importantly, learn to spend time alone and enjoy your own company. Tell yourself, "It's nice to have man. Want one. But don't need one if he is a dysfunctional man."

5) Never compare yourself to another woman: your appearance, your family and friends, your career, possessions, intelligence, talents or background. It will only chip away at your confidence and self-esteem.

6) Define the characteristics and qualities that are important to you in a man. Journal the events and your thoughts about the man you are dating. Keep your romantic longings in check while you are dating him. And always ask yourself objectively, "Is he your Dream Man or the Wrong Man." Only time will tell.

7) If you are in a bad relationship, it may be time for you to consider your life without him. Once out of a bad relationship, you will only benefit if you stop making the same relationship mistakes.